No husband is perfect and it doesn’t really matter. What matters is how I set myself up to think about him. If I focus on his failures, his annoyances, or ways in which I’ve felt hurt by him, then I will interact with him as a hurt and frustrated and disappointed wife. That makes for miserable living for me and my husband and those around us. But if I focus on his strengths, his potential, and the ways in which I feel blessed by him, then I will interact with him as a forgiving, blessed, and contented wife. And there’s no greater need a man has than to feel respected by his wife. If he feels like all he does is hurt, disappoint, and frustrate, then the same atmosphere and the same actions will be perpetuated. But if he feels that his wife can be happy and responsive regardless of his shortcomings, he feels respected and empowered. Then a positive atmosphere is perpetuated and actions, once destructive, can improve in an environment that is rich for cultivation and growth into deepened respect and intimacy."
::Taken from Katy Lin's blog::
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My husband rocks this week, because he has been letting me pretty much go crazy and buy a new purse and all the matching stuffz from Thirty One. I
lurve Thirty One bags, and I am actually having a party in a few weeks so I can try and get my baby bag as well!
Here is what he's gotten me so far:
The Inside Out Bag
The Soft Wallet
Keep it Caddy
Not Pictured:
Key Fob (keychain)
Small Thermal Zipper Pouch
On My Wishlist:
Organizing Utility Tote (to use as my baby bag)
Cosmetic Bag (using the big one in the baby bag, small one in my purse)
Coupon Clutch (2 - one for receipts, one for coupons)
Fold and Go Organizer with Notepad (for my purse)
Weekender Bag for Nana and Mawmaw's house
Either the Party Thermal
or the Out and About Thermal for my lunchbox for work
And the Cindy Tote for my computer bag/(eventual) camera bag
I also want a Retro Metro tote in Florida State but that I have to pay full price for, so I am hoping that I get enough money from my Gender Reveal Party on March 9th to be able to get it! If anyone wants to help and order, I will be posting the link here on my blog and instagram/facebook!
The point to all this is that it is SO out of character for my husband to just say "yes" with no issue, but when it came to these bags he almost knew BETTER than to say no.
Now if I could just convince him to let me be a consultant! I'm workin on it. *hint hint hubby*
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