Sunday, March 31, 2013

My Husband Rocks Vol. 7

No husband is perfect and it doesn’t really matter. What matters is how I set myself up to think about him. If I focus on his failures, his annoyances, or ways in which I’ve felt hurt by him, then I will interact with him as a hurt and frustrated and disappointed wife. That makes for miserable living for me and my husband and those around us. But if I focus on his strengths, his potential, and the ways in which I feel blessed by him, then I will interact with him as a forgiving, blessed, and contented wife. And there’s no greater need a man has than to feel respected by his wife. If he feels like all he does is hurt, disappoint, and frustrate, then the same atmosphere and the same actions will be perpetuated. But if he feels that his wife can be happy and responsive regardless of his shortcomings, he feels respected and empowered. Then a positive atmosphere is perpetuated and actions, once destructive, can improve in an environment that is rich for cultivation and growth into deepened respect and intimacy."

Before we get started I wanted to take a moment to introduce a new facet of My Husband Rocks! MHR Sundays will now have co-hosts! Starting next weekend I will be joined by some very special ladies who also have a lot of love for their husbands/significant others! Be sure to check in next week, when Lacey from Little Miss Nerd Girl will be joining me!

Often I talk about what my husband does for our family, but I hardly ever talk about what he doesn't do for us. Now, before we get too far ahead, this is the GOOD stuff.

He doesn't drink.
He doesn't go out and party.
He doesn't do drugs.
He doesn't lie, or cheat, or steal.
He doesn't gamble or indulge in irresponsible behavior.
He isn't lazy or unmotivated.

And for that, he rocks.

'Nuf said!


We want to hear all about the loves of your lives!

The Growing Tree

*Next Sunday*

Lacey at Little Miss Nerd Girl will be hosting with me!

Topic of conversation will be:

Anniversaries - your favorite one, your first one, just tell us about one that really stuck out to you!

* If you would like to participate *

Follow the prompt, or just wing it and blog about whatever you want, as long as it is about the love of your life! Don't feel like you can't contribute if you are not married, this is for anyone who wants to celebrate their significant other!  Then come back here and link up in the collection at the bottom of this post. Please grab the button and use it in your post, or post it somewhere on your blog!

The only thing I ask is to follow my blog via GFC, Bloglovin, Facebook or Twitter (icons at the top of my page - be sure to comment below and let me know how you follow and I will follow you back!) Then, take a look around at the other blogs linked up and leave them some love too!

* If you want to add the blog hop to your post *

If you want to participate in the hop and add the link-up to your post, click here and highlight the first code!

* If you would like me to add you to the advance email OR if you would like to co-host in the future*

If you would like to receive the code for the post before it goes live, or would like to co-host your very own My Husband Rocks Sunday Link-up, send me a message with the subject My Husband Rocks to:

See you later lovebugs!


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